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金钱、爱情与婚姻是永恒的主题。今天我们来讨论看看。
你相信披头士乐队唱过的那样吗?金钱买不到爱情?
或者你只是认为:男人看重女人的身材,女人看重男人的钱包?
你对此有何看法?
最近,广州十所大学进行了一项女大学生价值观调查,结果显示将近60%的受访者想要嫁给“富二代”,或者有钱人家的孩子,因为这能让她们少奋斗很多年。
广州的调查只是一个例子。
为了“少奋斗”或者“完全不用奋斗”,一部分女学生选择嫁给有钱人,这反映出她们不付出却想收获的欲望和“精神堕落”。
那么,你对婚姻的看法如何呢?是为爱结婚?还是为钱?
也许你会问:“到底什么是为钱而结的婚?”
由金钱决定的婚姻绕着财富和权势。
一些这样的婚姻结局并不美好,因为他们之间的关系并不是以爱和尊重为中心,而看重的是金钱和社会地位。
相反,在爱情基础上的婚姻,人之间的关系是由爱情决定的。
一个快乐、充实而成功的婚姻往往是相伴一生。
夫妻双方共同成长,互相关爱、理解、照顾。
同样,理想中,他们应该互相学习、互相补充对方的需求,共同进步,一起追求各自的梦想。
你同意吗?也许同意,也许不同意。
那么结论是什么?
对此我很难给你一个简单的答案。
但是我不认为婚姻应该简单地由一个人的钱袋子决定,婚姻涉及很多其他的复杂因素。
就我个人来看,我更倾向于更传统一些的婚姻观,对个人的个性、素质、品性更看重,而不是其他外在物质条件。
总归到底,要记住:你的幸福你做主!
好吧,以上就是对爱情与婚姻主题的批判性思考。
依你所想进行表达吧!尽可能多地吸取最大化的营养。
请观看以下的讨论:
hi,彭,昨天我看见你和一个男生一起约会,你看起来可开心啦!
哇,那肯定是你的新男朋友。
你们猜对了。我和他一见钟情呢!我很爱她,我觉得他太帅了!
哇,太浪漫了! 但是你选择他只是因为外表吗?
不是,我可没那么肤浅! 我觉得他是我最好的朋友,我们在很多问题上都意见一致,从人生观到发型等等。我真的觉得他就是我要找的人。
哦,太好了!那你呢?周,你有男朋友了吗?
还没。
那么我们玩个游戏吧!你会怎么选谁:一个有线但不太爱你的男人还是一个非常关心你但不太有钱的男人?
嗯,我觉得在一个恋爱关系里,钱不是最重要的。所以我也许会选不太有钱的那个吧!
选得好!但是现在越来越多的女生为了钱背叛自己的真感情呢!
是啊,这是现实。但别那么悲观嘛,你看,你就不是那种女孩啊!
是啊,我们相爱,就不是为了钱。
我喜欢你的态度。如果哪天我要结婚的话,我的那个他一定是世界上最爱我的人!
哦,你们两个太浪漫了。但是很多人是很现实的。你看,他们会认为金钱在婚姻中非常重要,结婚后人们往往会有很多经济压力,像要赡养父母、支持孩子的教育等。
别担心。爱是很强大的力量,可以促使你更好地追求幸福和财富!有爱陪伴的话一切都会好起来的!
是啊,我喜欢你的观点。爱是生活里最强大的支持。
哦,上课时间到了!
我们快一点吧!
好吧,本节就此结束。谢谢观看!
-1.1 Lexical Chunks Expressing Aims
--1.1 Lexical Chunks Expressing Aims
-1.2 Sentence Patterns for Research
--1.2 Sentence Patterns for Research
-1.3 An Introduction to Essay Writing
--1.3 An Introduction to Essay Writing
-1.4 An Introduction to MOOCs
--1.4 An Introduction to MOOCs
-1.5 Chinese Dragons
-Test 01
-2.1 Lexical Chunks for Dish, Flavor and Cookware
--2.1 Lexical Chunks for Dish, Flavor and Cookware
-2.2 Sentence Patterns for Describing Problems
--2.2 Sentence Patterns for Describing Problems
-2.3 Four Bases for Revising Essays (1): Unity and Support
--2.3 Four Bases for Revising Essays (1): Unity and Support
-2.4 The 8 Great Cuisines of China
--2.4 The 8 Great Cuisines of China
-2.5 Chinese Dumplings
-Test 02
-3.1 Lexical Chunks for Mental Health
--3.1 Lexical Chunks for Mental Health
-3.2 Three Most Common Types of Sentence-skills Errors in Writing
--3.2 Three Most Common Types of Sentence-skills Errors in Writing
-3.3 Point and Support in Essay Writing
--3.3 Point and Support in Essay Writing
-3.4 The Relationship Between Health and Stress
--3.4 The Relationship Between Health and Stress
-3.5 Acupuncture and Other TCM Therapies
--3.5 Acupuncture and Other TCM Therapies
-Test 03
-4.1 Lexical Chunks for Giving Opinions
--4.1 Lexical Chunks for Giving Opinions
-4.2 Dependent-Word Fragments
--4.2 Dependent-Word Fragments
-4.3 Four Bases for Revising Essays (2): Coherence and Sentence Skills
--4.3 Four Bases for Revising Essays (2): Coherence and Sentence Skills
-4.4 Creative Problem Solving
--4.4 Creative Problem Solving
-4.5 Chinese Kung Fu
-Test 04
-5.0 Introduction: Bilingual Education
--5.0 Introduction: Bilingual Education
-5.1 Prefixes Related to Numbers
--5.1 Lexical Learning by Introducing Prefixes Related to Numbers
-5.2 Sentence Patterns for Giving Definitions
--5.2 Sentence Patterns for Giving Definitions
-5.3 How to Give Definitions in Essay Writing
--5.3 How to Give Definitions in Essay Writing
-5.4 The Importance of Language Learning
--5.4 The Importance of Language Learning
-5.5 Chinese Characters
-Test 05
-6.0 Introduction: Love and Marriage
--6.0 Introduction: Love and Marriage
-6.1 Lexical Chunks: Cultural Words Related to Chinese Weddings
--6.1 Lexical Chunks: Cultural Words Related to Chinese Weddings
-6.2 Sentence Pattern: Should Passive Voice be Encouraged in Writing?
--6.2 Sentence Pattern: Should Passive Voice be Encouraged in Writing?
-6.3 How to Write a Supported Opinion Paragraph?
--6.3 How to Write a Supported Opinion Paragraph?
-6.4 Which is Your Idea of Marriage, Love-oriented or Money-oriented?
--6.4 Which is Your Idea of Marriage, Love-oriented or Money-oriented?
-6.5 Chinese Chopsticks
-Test 06
-7.0 Introduction: Budget
-7.1 Lexical Chunks: The Key Word “Deposit”
--7.1 Lexical Chunks: The Key Word “Deposit”
-7.2 Sentence Patterns on Expressing Purposes
--7.2 Sentence Patterns on How to Express Purposes
-7.3 Zooming in Expository Texts
--7.3 Reading and Scaffolding Expository Texts
-7.4 Spend Less? Earn More? Which Is the Better Path?
--7.4 Spend Less? Earn More? Which Is the Better Path?
-7.5 Chinese Seal
-Test 07
-8.1 Lexical Chunks for Space Exploration
--8.1 Lexical Chunks for Space Exploration
-8.2 Sentence Pattern: There be
--8.2 Sentence Pattern: There be
-8.3 Superordinate and Subordinate in Writing
--8.3 Superordinate and Subordinate in Writing
-8.4 Critical Thinking: Why Do We Explore Space?
--8.4 Critical Thinking: Why Do We Explore Space?
-8.5 Chinese Era
-Test 08
-9.1 Lexical Chunks for Immigration
--9.1 Lexical Chunks for Immigration
-9.2 Sentence Logic: Negation
--9.2 Sentence Logic: Negation
-9.3 Exemplification in Writing
--9.3 Exemplification in Writing
-9.4 Critical Thinking: Pros and Cons of Multiculturalism
--9.4 Critical Thinking: Pros and Cons of Multiculturalism
-9.5 Chinese Silk
-Test 09
-10.1 Lexical Chunks for Disasters
--10.1 Lexical Chunks for Disasters
-10.2 Sentence Writing: Inanimate Subject
--10.2 Sentence Writing: Inanimate Subject
-10.3 Essay Writing: A Drawing Opening
--10.3 Essay Writing: A Drawing Opening
-10.4 Critical Thinking: Humanity Vs Nature
--10.4 Critical Thinking: Humanity Vs Nature
-10.5 Chinese Classical Garden
--10.5 Chinese Classical Garden
-Test 10
-11.0 Introduction: Reading habits
--11.0 Introduction: Reading habits
-11.1 Lexical Chunks for Favorite Readings
--11.1 Lexical Chunks for Favorite Readings
-11.2 Sentence Patterns for Sharing Reading Experience
--11.2 Sentence Patterns for Sharing Reading Experience
-11.3 From Assumption to Opinion in Essay Writing
--11.3 From Assumption to Opinion in Essay Writing
-11.4 Appreciation of “On Studies” by Francis Bacon
--11.4 Appreciation of “On Studies” by Francis Bacon
-11.5 Four Treasures of the Study
--11.5 Four Treasures of the Study
-Test 11
-12.1 Lexical Chunks for Paraphrasing Advantages & Disadvantages
--12.1 Lexical Chunks for Paraphrasing Advantages & Disadvantages
-12.2 Sentence Patterns for Agreement & Disagreement
--12.2 Sentence Patterns for Agreement & Disagreement
-12.3 Presenting Different Ideas in Essay Writing
--12.3 Presenting Different Ideas in Essay Writing
-12.4 Debating: Lingua Franca--Beneficial or Detrimental?
--12.4 Debating: Lingua Franca--Beneficial or Detrimental?
-12.5 Chinese Antithetical Couplets
--12.5 Chinese Antithetical Couplets
-Test 12
-13.0 Introduction: Unforgettable Events
--13.0 Introduction: Unforgettable Events
-13.1 Lexical Learning by Analyzing Prefix and Suffix
--13.1 Lexical Learning by Analyzing Prefix and Suffix
-13.2 Sentence Patterns for Describing Unforgettable Events
--13.2 Sentence Patterns for Describing Unforgettable Events
-13.3 Flashback in Story Writing
--13.3 Flashback When Writing a Story
-13.4 Interpreting Competitive Culture
--13.4 Interpreting Competitive Culture
-13.5 Chinese Weiqi
-Test 13
-14.1 How do you feel about extreme sports? List your reasons.
--14.1 Lexical Chunks for Extreme Sports
-14.2 How to Use Parallelism
-14.3 How to Write a Concluding Paragraph
--14.3 How to Write a Concluding Paragraph
-14.4 Taking Risks
-14.5 Peking Opera
-Test 14
-15.1 Lexical Chunks for the Relationship between Happiness and Happiness Genes
--15.1 Lexical Chunks for the Relationship between Happiness and Happiness Genes
-15.2 How to Expand the Basic Sentence with Participles and Participle Phrases
--15.2 How to Expand the Basic Sentence with Participles and Participle Phrases
-15.3 Comparison and Contrast
--15.3 Comparison and Contrast
-15.4 The Road to Happiness
-15.5 Chinese Taoism
-Test 15
-16.1 Lexical Chunks for the Linguistic Difference between Men and Women
--16.1 Lexical Chunks for the Linguistic Difference between Men and Women
-16.2 How to Vary Sentences by Using Adverb Modifiers
--16.2 How to Vary Sentences by Using Adverb Modifiers
-16.3 How to Write an Introductory Paragraph
--16.3 How to Write an Introductory Paragraph
-16.4 How to Avoid Misunderstanding between Men and Women
--16.4 How to Avoid Misunderstanding between Men and Women
-16.5 Chinese Idioms
-Test 16
-Final Test








