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亲爱的同学们
大家好
今天由我
唐敏老师
来和大家一起学习一下
在会面交往中除握手礼仪之外的
比较常用的拥抱礼
拥抱
被认为是人与人之间距离感最近的一种行为
拥抱有很多的意义
母子之间有爱与被爱的拥抱
情侣之间有幸福甜蜜的拥抱
夫妻之间有宽容理解的拥抱
朋友之间有信任贴心的拥抱
吵架后的拥抱
代表妥协与原谅
相逢后的拥抱
代表思念与激动
离别前的拥抱
代表不舍与期待
那么
亲爱的同学
回想一下
你都拥有过什么样的拥抱呢
你是否还记得你们是怎样拥抱的吗
你们都认可对方给的拥抱是舒服合适的吗
其实拥抱在我们的日常生活中是有礼仪
有讲究的
在西方
尤其在一些欧美国家的商务交往中
可能第一次见面多以握手表示
但第二次见面时
迎接的礼节很可能是拥抱
因为拥抱与握手同等重要
拥抱甚至已经成为很多国家政府首脑
外交场合中的重要礼仪
随着我国对外交往的深入
除了外事活动以外
与外国朋友打交道的机会越来越多
一些社交场合
人们为了表示热情和欢迎
也会使用拥抱
当然
在交往中
我们应十分注意尊重对方的民族传统
和风俗习惯
这就要求我们一定要清楚
正确的拥抱礼仪和禁忌
拥抱时
两人相对而立
各自上身稍稍前倾
左脚在前
右脚在后
重心放在左脚
左手在下
右手在上
左手环对方右腰部位
右手环对方左肩部位
右侧脸颊与对方的脸颊相碰
拥抱时间不宜过长
如果是女士和男士在行使拥抱礼时
男士要注意距离的把握
女士要注意不要将口红
蹭碰到男士的衣物上
以免引起不必要的误会
尤其对英国人
芬兰人
印度人和日本人等许多国家的人
商务见面时都不习惯用拥抱
来表达彼此的感情
美国人
俄罗斯人
南斯拉夫人
性情豪爽
感情奔放
常在公众场合长时间地拥抱在一起
南斯拉夫人感情十分热烈
拥抱的动作最大
拥抱前张开双臂一阵冲刺
抱住对方
热烈而有力
被称为熊式拥抱
在也门
当晚辈拜见长辈或告别长辈时
须用双手紧紧抱住长辈的双肩
并尽情地亲吻其肩头
在西班牙
男人见面时有拥抱肩头的习俗
喀麦隆
中非和埃塞俄比亚则有拥抱脸颊的习俗
在中非
要抱住对方的脸往自己的右脸颊上贴一下
左脸颊上贴两下
在埃塞俄比亚
亲朋好友见面时
总是互相搂住对方的肩头
让双方的脸颊频频相碰
接触的次数越多说明双方的关系越密切
拥抱
是无声的语言
拥抱
是最简单的接受与认可
拥抱的时候
是彼此被需要的时候
而被别人需要
是一个人最有价值的时候
据说拥抱礼最早起源于
交战双方和谈见面时
彼此伸出双手表示不带兵器
因为这样还有互相怀疑的意思
后来就干脆演变成拥抱
拥抱也就成了表达尊重
真诚和关爱的礼仪了
好的
我们今天的课就到这里
谢谢同学们
我们下次再见
-Introduction: Winning through Etiquette
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--Do you think etiquette is important? Why?
--Do you know the differences between Chinese and foreign etiquette?
--What are your favorite “proverbs of etiquette” or “famous sentences of etiquette”?
-The Importance of Professional Image: Seven-Second Impression and Winning
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Overall Principle of Professional Dressing: The Beginning of a Successful Image
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Business Dressing Etiquette for Men: Opportunities in Dressing Etiquette
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Business Dressing Etiquette for Women: Are You “Posing” the Right Way
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Skin Care: Paying More Attention to Your Skin
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Professional Make-up: Have You Taken the Mistakes for Granted
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--Is the first impression important? How can we change our bad first impression on others?
--How to apply “fashion” to the workplace dressing?
--Do you know the differences between eastern and western understanding of makeup, skin care and even
-Posture: Winning People's Approval and Admiration
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Looks and Smiles: Valuable “Expression Package” in the Workplaces
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Special Body Languages: The Invisible Punctuation
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--What are gentlemen and ladies like in your eyes?
--What “minor behaviors” do you think you cannot stand?
-The Principle and Method of Seating Arrangements: Making Clear the Seating Order First
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Guiding Etiquette: Where Exactly Should You Be
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Seating Arrangements in Cars: Are You “Seated” Right
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Seating Arrangements in Business Meetings: It Is Not Wrong to Make Sure Your Seat Before Taking it
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Seating Arrangements of Chinese Banquets: How Do We Show Guests Respects
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Seating Arrangements of Western Banquets: What Do You Think About “Lady First”
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--Which order arrangement are you unclear?
--Who should sit in the front passenger seat?
--Do you know the principles, differences and exceptions of seat arrangements in Chinese and Western f
-Greetings: The Subtlety of Greeting
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Addresses: Details Not to Be Overlooked
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Handshake: The First Touch to Establish Contact
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Embrace: Do You Need Such “Temperature”
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Foreign-Related Etiquette: When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Self-Introduction: Introducing Yourself Formally
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Introducing Others: Bridging the Parties
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Business Card: The Second Face of Image
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--What is your favorite greeting?
--What do you think are the strange addressing terms in China?
--What kind of self-introduction can leave deep impression on others?
-Telephone Etiquette: How to Call Your Boss with Ease
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Cellphone Etiquette: Being Rude or Polite Cellphone Users
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Mail Etiquette: Helping You Maintain, Not Destroy, Relationships
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-WeChat Social Etiquette: The “Meeting and Scanning” Era
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--Do you know any popular Internet phrases that you cannot understand?
--What are some bad behaviors regarding emails that bother you?
--What would you do if you sent a job message but receive no reply?
-Invitation and Preparation: A Successful Invitation is the Beginning of Everything
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Chinese Food: Do Not Underestimate the “Multiple Choice Questions” on the Dining Table
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-The Drinking Etiquette of Chinese Banquets: “Can Drink" is Not Equal to “Drink Properly”
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Use of Chinese Tableware: It Is Said 90% of the People Do not Get It Right
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-The Dining Etiquette of Chinese Food: Soft Power around the Dining Table
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-The Clues in Western Tableware: The Dining Table as a “Weaponry Shop”
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Seven Dishes of Western Food: Do You Know How to Enjoy Each
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-The Drinking Etiquette of Western Food: A Love Affair with Food and Wine
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-The Dining Etiquette of Western Food: Graceful like a Gentleman and Lady
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--How would you arrange this feast?
--Do you know the differences in alcoholic beverage and drinks etiquette between Chinese and foreign c
--Would you please give some examples of differences in dining etiquette in Chinese food and western f
-Routine Reception: Promoting Impressions through Details
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Grand Reception: The Tailored Reception
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Company Visit 1: “Once or Never” Chance to Leave a Good Impression
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Company Visit 2: Details Make the Difference
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Residential Visit: For the Convenience of the Host and Be a Popular Visitor
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Business Gifts: Not the More Expensive the Better
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--What do you think is the most important thing in reception? Where are the differences in reception b
--Do you know any difference in people’s understanding of time across countries?
--Are you good at selecting gifts?
-Inspecting Yourself: Success Depends on Knowing Yourself and the Jobs Offered
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Resume Writing: How to Write an Irresistible Resume
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Interview Dress and Manner: Secrets for Improving Your Chances
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Classic Question Template: The Interviewer's Question Bank
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Resolution of Embarrassing Situations: Not Be Too Embarrassed to Recall These Tricks
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Discussion
--Which Chinese companies do you like the most?
--How can you make your resume stand out?
--Do you know what a no-leader group interview is?
-Speech Preparation: Overcoming Speech Anxiety
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Etiquette in Speech Making: Charm through Elegance
--Video
--PPT
--Quiz
-Concluding Stately: Future Escorted by Etiquette
--Video
--PPT
-Discussion
--Do you think giving a speech is scary? Talk about your experience.
--What do you think a successful speech should be?
--Can you summarize the differences in business etiquette between China and your country?
-Final Exam